Everyone experienced sexual arousal differently because everyone has different preference to how they response sexually. Most commonly everyone get arouse from kissing and touching one another.
There are numerous nerve endings on the mouth and lips that provide sensual feeling and erotic pleasure when kissed. Kissing provide intimacy between both partner in which an individual feel good kissing someone as well as an individual feel good receiving a kiss.
Touching is also an important sense of arousal because an entire body can respond sexually to touching. Touching does not always have to be directed to the genital area to achieve arousal. Different people prefer different type of touching and some people prefer touching on the breast and nipple to get sexually arouse and other prefer touching and kissing all over the body before touching the genital.
Everyone also have different experience to sexual response from different method of stimulation. Some people get excited very quickly to certain stimulation and others may not feel the same way. The ability to get excited quickly during stimulation or sexual activity also has to do with age. When people get older the ability to get arouses and excited also take longer to happen but people continue to enjoy sexual activity in the old age.
Almost everyone experience orgasm after the excitement phase in response to sexual arousal. However as people get older the ability to experience orgasm may take longer to achieve and others may continue to experience orgasm less frequently and others may not be able to achieve orgasm at all.
For older people that are able to achieve orgasm the experience are usually less intense and for older men the period after orgasm are lengthen for several hours or days before they are able to get sexually arouse or experience the next orgasm.
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Saturday, December 11, 2010
Sexual Behavior
Everyone express their sexual behavior differently depending on their preference and sexual partner. Almost everyone masturbate to explore their sexuality and orgasm so that they are more aware and become better at relating with their partner in a sexual relationship.
Everyone fantasize during masturbation to enhance pleasure and sexual arousal. Men’s sexual fantasy tend to focus more on the physical part of the women’s body and women’s fantasy focus more on the feelings and emotions that are involved.
Some people do not masturbate or have any sexual contact with another individual for personal or religious beliefs and some may only masturbate and not have any sexual contact with another individual also for the same beliefs.
Almost everyone also experience erotic dreams accompany by occasional orgasm that occur during the dream. The content of the dreams varies between individuals and sometime it makes sense and other time it doesn’t. The dream may involve normal sexual activity or extreme activities that are considered to be taboo.
Most people who are awaken from erotic dreams also noticed they are sexually arouse and having achieve erection and vaginal lubrication. Sometime the dream is accompany by orgasm and men notice this from ejaculation. People who have higher frequency of intercourse and orgasm during masturbation or sexual activity are more likely to experience orgasms during sleep.
Women in lesbian sexuality also tend to have better sexual satisfaction and experience more orgasms than women in heterosexual relationship. Lesbian women are better at communicating with their sexual partner and spend more time exploring each other body during sexual interaction.
Men in gay sexuality also enjoy showing more physical affections and prefer more physical body contact during sexual activity. Gay men find physical affections are more important in a relationship than any other sexual behavior.
Heterosexual couples also practice different sexual positions during sexual intercourse and this may varies depending on the couple’s mood. Some people prefer to be on top and some prefer a position where they can make eye contact and hold each other and some prefer rear entry position.
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Everyone fantasize during masturbation to enhance pleasure and sexual arousal. Men’s sexual fantasy tend to focus more on the physical part of the women’s body and women’s fantasy focus more on the feelings and emotions that are involved.
Some people do not masturbate or have any sexual contact with another individual for personal or religious beliefs and some may only masturbate and not have any sexual contact with another individual also for the same beliefs.
Almost everyone also experience erotic dreams accompany by occasional orgasm that occur during the dream. The content of the dreams varies between individuals and sometime it makes sense and other time it doesn’t. The dream may involve normal sexual activity or extreme activities that are considered to be taboo.
Most people who are awaken from erotic dreams also noticed they are sexually arouse and having achieve erection and vaginal lubrication. Sometime the dream is accompany by orgasm and men notice this from ejaculation. People who have higher frequency of intercourse and orgasm during masturbation or sexual activity are more likely to experience orgasms during sleep.
Women in lesbian sexuality also tend to have better sexual satisfaction and experience more orgasms than women in heterosexual relationship. Lesbian women are better at communicating with their sexual partner and spend more time exploring each other body during sexual interaction.
Men in gay sexuality also enjoy showing more physical affections and prefer more physical body contact during sexual activity. Gay men find physical affections are more important in a relationship than any other sexual behavior.
Heterosexual couples also practice different sexual positions during sexual intercourse and this may varies depending on the couple’s mood. Some people prefer to be on top and some prefer a position where they can make eye contact and hold each other and some prefer rear entry position.
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Sunday, November 28, 2010
Gender Identity
Gender identity is how an individual identify himself or herself socially. Biological male who have penis may want to socialize as a woman. Biological female with vagina may choose to socialize as a man.
For example a transsexual male with penis may feel like she is a woman who is trap in a man’s body. She likes to socialize as woman and desire the appearance of a woman and some may undergo sex reassignment to achieve their gender identity.
The same is true for transsexual female with vagina who wants to socialize as man and desire the masculine and appearance of a man and some may also undergo hormonal therapy to achieve their gender identity.
In some cases of intersex in which an individual posses sexual anatomy of both sexes. This may or may not appear at birth, many intersex children are not sure about their gender identity until they grow up and mature enough to make decision who they really want to be. These children require tremendous support from other intersex adult to help them get through the experience and to find their true identity based on their behavior and lifestyle that are consistent with their identity.
There are also transgender who are individual that likes to socialize as the opposite sex. For example a man who is married to a woman may like to socialize as woman and cross dressing. There are also women who like to socialize as man and desire masculine qualities.
Another type of gender is transvestites who are individual that like to cross dress for the purpose of achieving sexual arousal.
As we now know gender identity is the gender role or behavior that an individual chose to participate regardless of their sexes. This is not the same and not to be confuse with sexual orientation. Sexual orientation is the sex that each individual is attracted to for example a man is attracted to a woman, a man is attracted to another man, or a woman is attracted to another woman.
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For example a transsexual male with penis may feel like she is a woman who is trap in a man’s body. She likes to socialize as woman and desire the appearance of a woman and some may undergo sex reassignment to achieve their gender identity.
The same is true for transsexual female with vagina who wants to socialize as man and desire the masculine and appearance of a man and some may also undergo hormonal therapy to achieve their gender identity.
In some cases of intersex in which an individual posses sexual anatomy of both sexes. This may or may not appear at birth, many intersex children are not sure about their gender identity until they grow up and mature enough to make decision who they really want to be. These children require tremendous support from other intersex adult to help them get through the experience and to find their true identity based on their behavior and lifestyle that are consistent with their identity.
There are also transgender who are individual that likes to socialize as the opposite sex. For example a man who is married to a woman may like to socialize as woman and cross dressing. There are also women who like to socialize as man and desire masculine qualities.
Another type of gender is transvestites who are individual that like to cross dress for the purpose of achieving sexual arousal.
As we now know gender identity is the gender role or behavior that an individual chose to participate regardless of their sexes. This is not the same and not to be confuse with sexual orientation. Sexual orientation is the sex that each individual is attracted to for example a man is attracted to a woman, a man is attracted to another man, or a woman is attracted to another woman.
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Intersex Conditions
Intersex is a condition where an individual is born with sexual anatomy of both sexes. For example a female may be born with larger genital the looks like male genital and a male may be born with small genital that looks like female genital. This condition is caused by the irregularities of both sex chromosome and prenatal hormone.
There are many variation associated with intersex for example some women with intersex condition do not have ovaries or they do not have clitoris or labia. Some men with this condition discover they do not have testes and yet some individual have internal and external structure of both male and female.
In some cases intersex anatomy do not show up at birth until an individual reaches puberty and discovered to be infertile and some individual live with this condition without telling anyone.
There are many disorders that are associated with intersex, some are caused by unmatched sex chromosome and some are caused by irregular prenatal hormone production.
Children with intersex should be treated in open, shame-free, supportive environment where an attempt can be made to connect these children with adults who are intersex and with parents who have intersex children so they may provide each other with peer support.
When intersex children grow up the can chose their gender identity depending on what role they are most comfortable with in terms of the behavior and lifestyle that they feel are most consistent with their gender identity.
Once the children are mature enough to make their own decision and comfortable with their gender identity they can decide to have surgery perform so that their physical appearance is congruent with their gender identity. Before the surgery, the intersex children should be introduce to other intersex children who may or may not have the surgery to get more information by discussing with these patients and to get fully informed.
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There are many variation associated with intersex for example some women with intersex condition do not have ovaries or they do not have clitoris or labia. Some men with this condition discover they do not have testes and yet some individual have internal and external structure of both male and female.
In some cases intersex anatomy do not show up at birth until an individual reaches puberty and discovered to be infertile and some individual live with this condition without telling anyone.
There are many disorders that are associated with intersex, some are caused by unmatched sex chromosome and some are caused by irregular prenatal hormone production.
Children with intersex should be treated in open, shame-free, supportive environment where an attempt can be made to connect these children with adults who are intersex and with parents who have intersex children so they may provide each other with peer support.
When intersex children grow up the can chose their gender identity depending on what role they are most comfortable with in terms of the behavior and lifestyle that they feel are most consistent with their gender identity.
Once the children are mature enough to make their own decision and comfortable with their gender identity they can decide to have surgery perform so that their physical appearance is congruent with their gender identity. Before the surgery, the intersex children should be introduce to other intersex children who may or may not have the surgery to get more information by discussing with these patients and to get fully informed.
http://www.self-help-sexuality.com/
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